Siheyuan: tomb robbing? I am serious about hunting.

Chapter 829

. Maybe it is to become a scientist and contribute to the progress of mankind; maybe it is to become an artist and express inner feelings with works; maybe it is to start a business of your own and achieve economic freedom. However, when the ideal shines into reality, we find that the road to realize the ideal is full of thorns and bumps. The helplessness of reality forces many people to give up their ideals and choose a more "pragmatic" path. In order to obtain a stable income, they are engaged in jobs they don't like, repeating monotonous and boring work content every day. The former enthusiasm and dreams gradually disappeared in the day-to-day consumption. Just like Li Na, who studied music in college, in order to meet the expectations of her parents, she entered a state-owned enterprise to do administrative work after graduation. Despite the stable income, she felt that her life had lost its meaning and lived like a zombie every day. Even those who insist on pursuing their ideals face tremendous pressure and challenges. In a highly competitive society, to realize your ideals, you need not only talent and hard work, but also opportunities and luck. Many talented people can only struggle at the bottom because they don't have the right opportunities and can't see the hope of success. Those who are lucky enough to get the opportunity also need to work harder than ordinary people to stand out in the fierce competition. The game between ideals and reality has plunged adults into deep pain and confusion. They don't know whether they should continue to stick to their ideals or compromise with reality. In this game, there is no real winner, only endless helplessness and sighs. 4. Difficult choice between responsibility and self The adult world is full of various responsibilities. Responsibility to family, responsibility to work, and responsibility to society, these responsibilities are like a heavy yoke that makes people breathless. Between responsibility and self, adults often fall into difficult choices. For the sake of the family, many people give up their dreams and pursuits, and devote all their energy and time to taking care of their families and making money to support their families. They save money and eat frugally just to provide better educational conditions for their children and better living security for their parents. However, in the process of paying, they gradually lose themselves and forget that they were once individuals with dreams and pursuits.

At work, adults also need to take on corresponding responsibilities. They are responsible for their work tasks, their team members, and the interests of the company. In order to complete their work tasks, they often work overtime and sacrifice their rest time and personal life. Sometimes, even if their bodies are overwhelmed, they dare not ask for leave to rest, because they are afraid of affecting their work progress and causing trouble for their colleagues. Under the heavy pressure of responsibility, it is difficult for adults to have the time and energy to pay attention to their own needs and feelings. They are like a spinning top that keeps spinning, constantly busy to meet the expectations of others. When one day, they suddenly stopped, they found that they had lost their way, didn't know who they were, and what they wanted. 5. The healing power behind those "human awakening" Although the lives of adults are full of helplessness, those "human awakening" copywritings that are forwarded crazily in the circle of friends are like a beam of light, illuminating our dark inner world. They use sharp language to pierce the false mask of life and let us see the truth of reality; at the same time, they also give us the courage and strength to face the difficulties and challenges in life. These "awakening in the world" copywritings make us realize that the helplessness and pain in life are not our unique experience, and there are countless people struggling and fighting like us. This resonance makes us no longer feel lonely and helpless, but find a sense of belonging and identity. It tells us that no matter how difficult life is, we are not fighting alone. At the same time, "awakening in the world" also allows us to learn to accept reality and let go of those unrealistic fantasies. It makes us understand that life cannot be smooth sailing, there will always be setbacks and difficulties. We cannot change reality, but we can change our mentality and face life with a more calm and optimistic attitude. When we learn to accept reality and let go of our obsessions, we will find that the helplessness in life does not seem to be so unbearable. In addition, "awakening in the world" also inspires our inner fighting spirit and courage. It makes us understand that although life is full of helplessness, we cannot give up our efforts because of this. We must strive to pursue our dreams and realize our own value in our limited life. Even if we cannot realize our ideals in the end, we must live our own splendor in the process of struggle. In this helpless adult world, those "clear-minded" copywritings are like a good medicine to heal our wounded hearts. They allow us to love life and move forward bravely after recognizing the truth of life. Life has never been an easy thing. The adult world is full of helplessness, loneliness and anxiety. Those "clear-minded" copywritings that are frantically forwarded in the circle of friends speak out the helplessness deep in our hearts, and also let us find resonance and strength. Perhaps we cannot change the current situation of life, but we can choose how to face it. May we all still love life after seeing the truth of life, and live out our own splendor in this helpless world.

In order to survive and fulfill their responsibilities, they have to give up their hobbies and interests, suppress their emotional needs, and lose themselves in busyness and exhaustion. 2. Loneliness and anxiety hidden behind the smile On the surface, adults always show a strong and optimistic image. They talk and laugh in social occasions and show an omnipotent side in front of their families. However, when night falls and they are alone, the loneliness and anxiety in their hearts come like a tide. The fast-paced life in modern society makes people more and more alienated from each other. Although communication technology is increasingly developed and people can keep in touch with others through various social software, this virtual social method cannot really meet people's inner needs for emotional communication. Many times, people share bits and pieces of life in the circle of friends just to get likes and comments from others and gain a false sense of existence. When the excitement is over, only endless emptiness and loneliness are left. The pressure of work and life also makes adults more and more anxious. Faced with an uncertain future, they worry about unemployment, illness, children's education, and parents' retirement. These worries are like time bombs that may explode in their hearts at any time.